Q+A

Question: Do you have an etiquette page so I know how to treat a lady such as yourself?

Answer: Something about telling a man how to behave always struck me as an absurdity - gentlemen don’t need to be told these things and men who do need to be told these things aren’t going to read those instructions!

Q: How do I know you’re “legit”?

A: Tryst.link requires that I am the woman in the photos and those photos match with a government ID. Preferred411 is a bit more tricky for a companion to get into - multiple clients in their system must have independently verified that a companion is, in fact, a companion, and not some other entity, and they also have my ID - I've been on there for about 10 years now. If need be, I'm happy to draw up a non-disclosure agreement. Beyond that, you'll just have to rely on your own judgment.

Q: Hey, so, I need to be as discreet as possible. You’re not going to tell anybody, right?

A: A lady never kisses and tells.

Q: If I give you personally identifiable information, how do I know that you’ll keep it safe?

A: I use Protonmail, encrypted email based in Switzerland, which cannot actually be decrypted even if compelled. Once received and validated, PII is deleted - you could even make your own Protonmail account and send it to me in a self-deleting email. Do try to ensure that I have at least 24 hours to read it.

Q: Uh, so, payment. How do we take care of that?

A: Once I’ve verified that you are who you say you are - you’ll get an invoice for the deposit from a discreet artificial intelligence consultancy - credit card and ACH are options there. Traditionally, cash in a white envelope is the preferred option for the remainder - but, I’m open to digital payments for the full sum.

Q: A deposit?!? How do I know you won’t just take the deposit and not show up?

A: Remember that tryst.link ad? Tryst will remove advertisers who have been caught “deposit scamming”. Also, how do I know you won’t do a chargeback after I’ve shown up? This is really a “trust and character” thing. Do your due diligence and use your own judgment.